分手了但暂时又没有心情或合适的人再投入心的恋情，这就意味着正出于空窗期。
这些年的单身自由，无拘无束的轻松似乎已演变成了毫无归属感的恐惧。虽然说，一个人的生活可以很自在，不需顾虑另一方到底喜不喜欢自己的发型而拼命剪短发再染发，有些人甚至不需刻意打扮，因为他们觉得打扮也没人看，渐渐地也成了干物女。当然，像我这个爱美的女孩，没有了爱情，反而更学会打扮，提升自己的市场嘛！哈
单身期间虽然不间断地搞暧昧，最后却一个个告吹。原因很简单，对于他们，就是缺乏了一股想谈恋爱的冲动！结果我的空窗期不知不觉已长达了两年，呵呵~
再结果，我与友人就立下我们2009之愿 - 趁2009还没结束前，一定要结束我们的单身生活。
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他说他一定要找个女朋友，好让自己工作累了，就会有个女友帮他按摩。。。
我说我要找个男朋友，即使身边的朋友都没空，至少还有一个肯掏出他的睡眠时间，夜阑人静时分，到车站接我回家。。。
虽然这些要求很简单，但他/她们却是我们的精神之驻，也是牵动着我们心灵的一份归属感。
不单身的朋友，会劝我们好好享受一个人的自由，他们何尝也不是周末都要男/女友陪。。。
单身的我们其实也只想找个可以哭的肩膀。。。
而我存脆想重拾恋爱的感觉~
21 comments:
Gambate yo!!
Pretty and smart perosn like you, will deserve someone who loves and care bout you...
Miho
When the feel comes, u can't resist it and avoid it....
But as u found one that "dop dop" yr heart...then u better take yr steps and not waiting him to take the 1st steps....21 century lor~~
GD luck....
To be continued....
haha i just realize that y u like the song very much...Its called "someone there for me" haha
To be continued....
Hey ya Miho sang!
"Pretty & smart" that's sounds like a compliment to me...hah!
Whether I am single or attached,the impression that you have on me will certainly become my main drive to follow my heart =)
Miss ya~
Elson desu,
The problem is I haven't found the right person to cause my heart "dop dop" leh...haih...
如果觉得空窗， 挂上美丽的帘，就不空啦！ 选帘时，不要太挑啦！ 又要美，又要能遮阳挡风挡雨。 能遮阳挡风挡雨就好啦！
培啊，
你我的审美观有别，不美的窗帘很碍眼的neh!
如果窗帘不美，挂上了，挡住了风，遮去了阳，心还是属於空的。。。哈！
小女子总是不明白，为何爱情那么痛苦，但大家还是期待呢？
或许是小女子还未经历过吧，所以才不能体会为何总那么多人为情所困。
但，还是衷心祝福你，希望你早日找到你的真命天子，然后早日‘拉埋天窗’
嘻嘻～
haiz...i found a person dop dop my heart since last year..bt i dunno hw i tell her..allot of problem..
ckei,
This called purposely get myself into troubles...wahahahaaa..
Heart getting itchy liao =P
Herng,
Wow! You like her since last year arrr...that's kinda long to me...
Perhaps you can try to sort out the main problem so that you could take a step further...
Good Luck! =)
ckei, 可以找我试试看。。。我给你经历经历！
我觉得阿培说的不是没道理.
"选帘时，不要太挑啦！ 又要美，又要能遮阳挡风挡雨。 能遮阳挡风挡雨就好啦！" mana tau 会有一个窗帘你用用下，觉得他真的很好用，虽然他不是很好看，但是适用，而你也不再介意他到底美不美。这样就漂亮了咯。哈哈。
hahaha..i think the main problem is me..nt dare i think..
cz she gv me alot of sign..she make cake for me..buy ting eat for me and go out 2ghter...
空着的窗子可以看见更美丽的外面世界
空窗期是扩展视野和生活体验的最好时期
好好珍惜吧
时机总有成熟的时侯
ah ann 好像在叫你等蜜桃成熟
然后来一段蜜桃成熟恋， 就还想没牵手之恋一样
Pay & Sau Loong,
你们俩一唱一和，讲到好像我很挑酱 >.<
Herng,
The sign is so obvious...
You need some 《勇气》from Fish ^-^
Ann,
时机总有成熟的时候。。。
还没成熟之前，就身于空窗咯 =P
yupe very obvios oh....bt i dunno oh..haiz..
really need yong qi..
love ...
timing really very important!
Love at the right time will produce fruits. waiting for whole life @ the wrong timing will just be only waiting...
Appreciate whatever u have and the time with him/her... mayb the time is just once in ur life! gambate!~~~
Hey Steve!
It's been a while to have ur absence here...hehe...
Timing is the crucial part to begin a story,yet how many percent of efforts that you willing to give together with both compromising to each other need,then only will let the story continues...
Still,to maintain a smooth journey is never been an easy task...I believe all strongly agree with this...
It's not easy but that's only if I have the chance to maintain...
Steve,
当平滑的玻璃已被磨损后，即使再有机会与时间去磨平，此玻璃仍是存有痕迹的。。。
感情没有十全十美，但要有光泽，就象磨损的玻璃反射的光都不会比平滑的玻璃来得耀眼。
不要再缅怀如果，IF这个词了。。。
松开你的拳头吧，心或许会更自由些。
哈哈哈 我空窗了24年
我也想要告别单身 ^_^
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