Saturday, May 9, 2009

空窗期

分手了但暂时又没有心情或合适的人再投入心的恋情,这就意味着正出于空窗期。

这些年的单身自由,无拘无束的轻松似乎已演变成了毫无归属感的恐惧。虽然说,一个人的生活可以很自在,不需顾虑另一方到底喜不喜欢自己的发型而拼命剪短发再染发,有些人甚至不需刻意打扮,因为他们觉得打扮也没人看,渐渐地也成了干物女。当然,像我这个爱美的女孩,没有了爱情,反而更学会打扮,提升自己的市场嘛!哈

单身期间虽然不间断地搞暧昧,最后却一个个告吹。原因很简单,对于他们,就是缺乏了一股想谈恋爱的冲动!结果我的空窗期不知不觉已长达了两年,呵呵~

再结果,我与友人就立下我们2009之愿 - 趁2009还没结束前,一定要结束我们的单身生活。
>>.<<
他说他一定要找个女朋友,好让自己工作累了,就会有个女友帮他按摩。。。
我说我要找个男朋友,即使身边的朋友都没空,至少还有一个肯掏出他的睡眠时间,夜阑人静时分,到车站接我回家。。。
虽然这些要求很简单,但他/她们却是我们的精神之驻,也是牵动着我们心灵的一份归属感。

不单身的朋友,会劝我们好好享受一个人的自由,他们何尝也不是周末都要男/女友陪。。。
单身的我们其实也只想找个可以哭的肩膀。。。
而我存脆想重拾恋爱的感觉~

21 comments:

Alex + Miho said...

Gambate yo!!
Pretty and smart perosn like you, will deserve someone who loves and care bout you...

Miho

{E}lson desu said...

When the feel comes, u can't resist it and avoid it....

But as u found one that "dop dop" yr heart...then u better take yr steps and not waiting him to take the 1st steps....21 century lor~~

GD luck....


To be continued....

{E}lson desu said...

haha i just realize that y u like the song very much...Its called "someone there for me" haha

To be continued....

Lynne said...

Hey ya Miho sang!

"Pretty & smart" that's sounds like a compliment to me...hah!
Whether I am single or attached,the impression that you have on me will certainly become my main drive to follow my heart =)

Miss ya~

Elson desu,
The problem is I haven't found the right person to cause my heart "dop dop" leh...haih...

lechpay said...

如果觉得空窗, 挂上美丽的帘,就不空啦! 选帘时,不要太挑啦! 又要美,又要能遮阳挡风挡雨。 能遮阳挡风挡雨就好啦!

Lynne said...

培啊,
你我的审美观有别,不美的窗帘很碍眼的neh!
如果窗帘不美,挂上了,挡住了风,遮去了阳,心还是属於空的。。。哈!

ckei said...

小女子总是不明白,为何爱情那么痛苦,但大家还是期待呢?
或许是小女子还未经历过吧,所以才不能体会为何总那么多人为情所困。
但,还是衷心祝福你,希望你早日找到你的真命天子,然后早日‘拉埋天窗’
嘻嘻~

大恒 said...

haiz...i found a person dop dop my heart since last year..bt i dunno hw i tell her..allot of problem..

Lynne said...

ckei,

This called purposely get myself into troubles...wahahahaaa..
Heart getting itchy liao =P

Herng,

Wow! You like her since last year arrr...that's kinda long to me...
Perhaps you can try to sort out the main problem so that you could take a step further...

Good Luck! =)

lechpay said...

ckei, 可以找我试试看。。。我给你经历经历!

sau loong said...

我觉得阿培说的不是没道理.
"选帘时,不要太挑啦! 又要美,又要能遮阳挡风挡雨。 能遮阳挡风挡雨就好啦!" mana tau 会有一个窗帘你用用下,觉得他真的很好用,虽然他不是很好看,但是适用,而你也不再介意他到底美不美。这样就漂亮了咯。哈哈。

大恒 said...

hahaha..i think the main problem is me..nt dare i think..
cz she gv me alot of sign..she make cake for me..buy ting eat for me and go out 2ghter...

Ah Ann said...

空着的窗子可以看见更美丽的外面世界
空窗期是扩展视野和生活体验的最好时期
好好珍惜吧
时机总有成熟的时侯

lechpay said...

ah ann 好像在叫你等蜜桃成熟

然后来一段蜜桃成熟恋, 就还想没牵手之恋一样

Lynne said...

Pay & Sau Loong,

你们俩一唱一和,讲到好像我很挑酱 >.<

Herng,
The sign is so obvious...
You need some 《勇气》from Fish ^-^

Ann,
时机总有成熟的时候。。。
还没成熟之前,就身于空窗咯 =P

大恒 said...

yupe very obvios oh....bt i dunno oh..haiz..
really need yong qi..

Steve said...

love ...

timing really very important!

Love at the right time will produce fruits. waiting for whole life @ the wrong timing will just be only waiting...

Appreciate whatever u have and the time with him/her... mayb the time is just once in ur life! gambate!~~~

Lynne said...

Hey Steve!

It's been a while to have ur absence here...hehe...

Timing is the crucial part to begin a story,yet how many percent of efforts that you willing to give together with both compromising to each other need,then only will let the story continues...
Still,to maintain a smooth journey is never been an easy task...I believe all strongly agree with this...

steve said...

It's not easy but that's only if I have the chance to maintain...

Lynne said...

Steve,

当平滑的玻璃已被磨损后,即使再有机会与时间去磨平,此玻璃仍是存有痕迹的。。。
感情没有十全十美,但要有光泽,就象磨损的玻璃反射的光都不会比平滑的玻璃来得耀眼。

不要再缅怀如果,IF这个词了。。。
松开你的拳头吧,心或许会更自由些。

ONG-ZY said...

哈哈哈 我空窗了24年
我也想要告别单身 ^_^